diary

June 20th, 2026

Frida Kahlo - "The Broken Column" (1944) Can you believe I'm here, walking around, as my heart hangs out of my chest? There is nothing like ...

June 17th, 2026

The most important work I will ever do is to bear witness to my life, to affirm that my life matters even if it does not look like anyone el...

June 16th, 2026

It hit me today that this period of my life is about facing my worst fears. Almost every single one of the things I feared most has happened...

June 14th, 2026

A year ago today, my mother died. I couldn't imagine living one day without her. Now, I've lived 365 days without her. Every day, for the re...

June 9th, 2026

"We Will Not Be Lovers" by The Waterboys Unrequited love is about hunger. It's about what we want and can't have, what seduces and tantalize...

June 7th, 2026

Recently, on the 20th anniversary of my father's death, I reflected on a scene from Virginia Woolf's Mrs. Dalloway . Today, when I sought ou...

June 6th, 2026

In the past week, the grief has been physically affecting me. I expected as much in the lead-up to the one-year anniversary of my mother's d...

June 5th, 2026

My second granny rectangle blanket is finished! I love it so much. It's also the first blanket I've added a border to. I think this will be ...

June 3rd, 2026

One of the most beautiful memories of my life is watching the DVD of Simon & Garfunkel: The Concert in Central Park with my father when ...